May 2025

This morning, I set out for a quiet walk along the track near my home. The air was mild for the season, and several others were already out, enjoying the unexpected warmth. I parked near the tennis courts, stepped through the gate, and began walking, using the time to talk with the Lord about the worries and pains weighing on my body, and my heart.

As I made my rounds, I began to notice something; several earthworms scattered along the pavement, dried out and lifeless from the night. A few steps later, a single worm caught my eye. It was still moving, inching slowly toward the safety of the grass.

Without much thought, I brushed away with my foot and said, almost dismissively, “Hope you make it, buddy,” before continuing on my way; Only moments later, the Holy Spirit stirred something in me, exposing a lesson hidden in my actions.

How often do we treat other people in the same careless way?

When we encounter someone who’s struggling emotionally, physically, financially, or spiritually we sometimes acknowledge their pain but fail to truly help.

It’s easier to offer a quick word of sympathy than to stop and reach out. We may assume it’s not our problem or that others can handle things themselve: Yet the call of Christ is far deeper: to love our neighbor as ourselves, to lift others up with compassion, and to see their worth through His eyes.

Scripture reminds us that self-righteousness and pride can quietly harden the heart, although we may tell ourselves that others don’t deserve our help, or that things will change once they take the first step,yet Jesus knows our true motives. He knows when our hearts are softened by grace and He knows when they are ruled by self.

The story of Job comes to mind: though he endured unimaginable loss, it wasn’t until Job prayed sincerely for his friends that God restored him.

True blessing often begins where forgiveness and humility meet. I have learned from my own seasons of bitterness how destructive it can be to harbor anger or attempt to justify selfishness. Real growth happens when we allow the Holy Spirit to confront those attitudes, admit our faults, and walk away renewed.

There is freedom in surrender, and no peace in defending sin or blaming others.

That simple moment with the worm became a quiet reminder of how God teaches through ordinary things. If we dismiss those who are hurting, how can we expect to be a blessing or receive one?

As Romans 7 illustrates, the struggle between our sinful human nature (flesh) and spiritual nature is ongoing. Every time we act from pride or indifference, we distance ourselves from the heart of Christ, and grace doesn’t give excuses to foolish, wilful stupidity.

The next time someone crosses your path in need, whether they show it through words or silence; pause before walking away. Offer kindness, patience, and a listening ear. You never know how a small act of care might help bring someone back to life.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”  Proverbs 3:5–6